The Freedom programme is a great organisation that help women and men that suffer domestic abuse. It also helps men that want to become better nicer men. They have cards, Fridge Magnets and other things you can buy and a video about what to look for and expect in a partner.
This LINK is to the Mr Right Mr Wrong Page please have a look its really good and maybe you can recognise some of it. Hopefully from the Mr Right section.
This LINK takes you to the Mr Right, Mr Wrong video.